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13 weeks from now….

February 24, 2009 · 12 Comments

This morning I opened up my email and there were my weekly updates from two pregnancy by the week places.    We are at 27 weeks and both of them said that I could expect the baby to make its appearance in about 13 weeks.   I am sorry but holy SH*T 13 weeks is really not that far away!!!   Okay the freak out is done. (sort of.)

Everything is going well.    I have been feeling amazing and really powerful.   Or as I have been embarrassingly finding myself saying:  “I feel like a million bucks.”   Well, all good things have to end at some point I suppose and I have been feeling less like my body can do anything..  my hips in particular have been very sore.    I talked to our birth class instructor and she gave me some referrals for chiropractors who specialize in the pregnant ladies.   I am hoping that one of them can help me out.   

We have been doing a ton of nesting and cleaning.     I have gotten pretty intense about needing the house to be a lot cleaner.     So much so that our vacuum broke on Saturday afternoon (it was actually a bit scary because we think that it had a small electrical fire in the cord) and we were on our way to lo.wes and purchased a new one within 3 hours.    This is really  not like us.    We cleaned out an armoire that I have been using as a closet  and gave it to a friend who just moved.   Which made way for a crib for Sprout.    crib

We still need a mattress but I think this looks like a cozy little place to the baby.    It is on my side of the bed so it should be pretty easy to see and hear the baby all the time.    We are both a little amazed that we have a crib in our house.     That little white dresser is filled with sprout-related items and will eventually be used as a changing table too.   We have gone crazy on diaper buying.    We are going to try to use gdi.apers and bum.genius (although I am sure some disposables will be in use too ).   Our stash is pretty amazing, and we have been buying them all used which has cut down on cost so much.    bum-geniusThese are the bumg.enius.

gdiapers-and-shoesAnd these are the gdi.apers on the left side.    I would love to hear if anyone has used either of these diapering systems and what you thought.    In this drawer there are also some shoes.   We are particularly proud of these shoes because we made them two weekends ago.   shoesWe have been working on a quilt for Sprout too, but we are not really at a photo documentation stage yet.  

We have finished our second week of the Brad.ley class.    It is going well.    It is very difficult to be the only lesbian couple in the class, particularly for H.    The teacher is somewhat aware that not everyone in her class is heterosexual – for instance she makes a big effort to say partner instead of men or husband but then in the last class she read a passage about the power of male and female energy  in birth which made H and I feel left out of the class.   We need to talk about this with each other a lot more, and I am thinking that we are gearing up to have a conversation with her.   

I am always so impressed with how much Sprout likes to move.     We discovered this weekend that when I spoon H with my belly to her back she can feel the kicking.     I am waiting to hear back from our midwifes about if I passed the gestational diabetes test.    Please have your fingers crossed for us!!!

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12 responses so far ↓

  • S. // February 24, 2009 at 6:24 pm | Reply

    thanks for your recent sweet comments on my blog!

    i LOVE the shoes! where did you find the pattern/instructions?

    i’ll be interested to read any comments you get about the cloth diapers. we want to use them as well, but aren’t sure which brand to buy. . .

  • reproducinggenius // February 24, 2009 at 6:36 pm | Reply

    My fingers are firmly crossed for you about the GD test.

    The class sounds frustrating. There is nothing worse than being made to feel like such an outsider. Talking with the instructor is probably a good idea. She may never have considered how this would make a lesbian couple–or even a single woman–feel, and she needs to know.

    Finally, those shoes are adorable. I am impressed!

  • wishinghopingpraying // February 24, 2009 at 7:02 pm | Reply

    EEEK! Time is flying! Your diaper stash looks great too. Sorry about the B.ra.dley class, I hope it gets easier. Enjoy nesting :-)

  • sn // February 24, 2009 at 8:23 pm | Reply

    love love love bum genius. we went through a ton of different diapers, and if we had to do it all over again, we’d use only bum genius (and happy heinys, which are also pocket diapers, less super dry feeling and super absorbent, but a little more trim and much nicer colors). hooray for cloth diapering nyc parents! (it can be done!)

  • jessie // February 24, 2009 at 8:39 pm | Reply

    Oh you are so much further ahead than we are!!!

  • R // February 24, 2009 at 11:38 pm | Reply

    I love the shoes!! I can’t believe you just have 13 weeks to go! That’s crazy!!!

  • Olive // February 25, 2009 at 12:40 am | Reply

    You’re pro nesters!

  • nutella // February 25, 2009 at 11:03 am | Reply

    Aww, what a cozy little nest!! You are far, far more organized and ready than we are! And I think Strawberry would have a heart attack if I ever expressed the need to vacuum. I HATE it.

    So glad you are feeling well, I <3 my chiropractic care so I have high hopes for it brining you relief.

  • strawberry // February 25, 2009 at 11:15 am | Reply

    Holy cow, you have a ton of diapers already. lol. We have a very small stash of seventh generation disposables for the very beginning, and then we’ve registered for a few gdiaper packs and liners. After seeing your stash, I feel inadequate. lol.

    I recommend suggesting lesbian resource books to your Bradley teacher. I was glad Nutella did it with ours…if she ends up looking into it, it will be more of an eye-opener. I’ve made a promise to myself that if our instructor brings up something uncomfortable like yours did, I will speak up then and there…even if it’s in a joking way (“male and female energy? sorry, that’s not gonna work over here!”)

  • giggleblue // February 26, 2009 at 5:55 pm | Reply

    those little shoes are the cute!!

  • j. k-c. // March 8, 2009 at 7:28 pm | Reply

    We have been trying with the G diapers….we didn’t use them the first few weeks because they came up too high on his belly and his umbilical cord was still healing. We use them sometimes and mostly they are good. Our boy pees A LOT (more than once an hour)! And he gets very cranky with the G’s as soon as he wets, and the liner gets all bunchy and funny when wet, so I can’t blame him. We tried the 7th generation disposables and they didn’t work at all with our boy. Poop out the side, every time. So far we love pampers, but we will keep on using the G’s too.

  • sophie // August 11, 2009 at 1:17 am | Reply

    hello,
    I just stumbled on your website and just wanted to tell you that I have been using gdiapers on my daughter for over a year now. I used disposables with both my boys and then a friend told me about g’s. I gave them a try, and I have never looked back!
    they are very trim for a cloth diaper, and you can either use cloth/their disposable liners in them (I use both).
    I would recommend having extra snap-in liners so you can change those out and just reuse your covers when the inside liner is dirty.
    The key to g’s is getting a good seal with the white snap in liner. Start with a high-rise in the front, and make sure the velcro isn’t tooo tight or it will actually loosen the seal.

    Hope this helps
    if you have any questions feel free to go to my blog (look up the posts I have written on gdiapers) and ask anything you need. :)

    Sophie

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